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How to Choose the Right Assisted Living Facility

1 minute readLast updated February 19, 2026
Written by nataliamerkulov

When you tour assisted living facilities, you’ll have the opportunity to speak directly with staff members and, when appropriate, even residents. Asking questions about pricing, amenities, caregivers, the types of care provided, and community culture will help you and your loved one compare when it’s time to choose the best facility.

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Key Takeaways

  1. Cost is an important consideration when choosing an assisted living community, but there are many other factors that affect your loved one’s quality of life.
  2. Tours are an ideal time to ask questions as you’ll be able to talk directly with staff and residents.
  3. Staff may have questions for you, which is a good sign that they’re doing their best to make sure their facility is a good fit.
  4. Use our tour checklist to track the answers you receive from each community to help you compare them later.

Key questions to find the right fit

To prepare for your visits to each assisted living community, discuss these topics to determine what matters most to you and your loved one:

  • Price and pricing structure
  • Services and levels of care
  • Floor plans and community amenities
  • Programming and activities
  • Caregiver training and staff-to-resident ratio
  • Community culture and staff friendliness

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FROM THE EXPERT

Most of the time if residents are happy, they’ll even come and interrupt your tour to tell [you] how happy they are. As a former sales director, I’d always love it when residents did that.

Families Also Ask

If your loved one and their roommate aren’t compatible, ask the assisted living community about options and how conflicts are handled.

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Ashley is the manager of content strategy at A Place for Mom. She has over a decade of experience writing, editing, and planning content for family caregivers on topics like senior health conditions, burnout, long-term care options and costs, estate planning, VA benefits, and Medicaid eligibility. Ashley has also moderated AgingCare.com’s popular Caregiver Forum since 2018. She holds a bachelor's degree in English and a master's degree in mass communication from the University of Florida.
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